Rounding Out The Night

Sitting back enjoying a little peace after a day full of events...

Between RL and SL.

RL Zeke and I had a million things to do that was nonstop. I could have opted to stay at home and he wouldnt have minded but in reality I wanted to steal the time with him. I take as much as I'm given because I adore this man in every aspect. He's a brilliant, loving man, he's exceptionally romantic and an all around sweetheart that is handsome and he just gives off that certain kind of vibe that makes you want to be around him. I love being around him simply because of who he is and the person that he is. He's just one of a kind, but then again he is my Zeke. We did go out for dinner at a nice restaurant and he did get me a lovely card and a couple of red roses, he doesnt get me a dozen because I dont want him too. They only last a couple of days then they wither and die. The princess cut diamond necklace was precious. He doesnt have to do these things, I will love him no matter if its dinner, a card and a red rose or two. All I really want is him, he is the greatest gift I could ever be given and for that reason I truly am blessed.

It's now nearly 4 am in my RL time and I've only been done with my volunteer services for the amazing One Billion Rising and expressed my interest in being a part of it next year as well for a little over an hour, give or take. I'm thankful that I am a survivor and that I can tell my story and maybe help someone else in a similar situation and maybe help them get away and take their life back, inspiring others with your will and ambition to live and your success gives others hope, hope for a better tomorrow...Hope to start over anew on their own two feet in control of their own life once again and it feels damn good to be in control of yourself...Your mind, your body, your soul and the spark of live returns as you heal and become whole once again. Sure we will be damaged but were worthy!

So, basically the point of this blog is to show what I choose to wear with the uniform shirt that the OBR Team members wore and the over all look to the approach that I chose to do. 

Here's the photo taken from the Unite Sim where I was a greeter 

There is nothing flashy or fancy about me here. I wore no makeup I opted out of skin showing clothing other than whats seen from the tares in my jeans and no sexy boots or high heels. My hair in a messy bun. Yet I am still beautiful in my own skin without all the glitz, glam and fancy makeup and clothing.

 Why did I choose to do this?

I wanted to go natural without being dressed attractively. 

I stood at my post dancing rising for my sisters who have been abused in various ways without excluding any form of abuse. Domestic Violence is only one form of the MANY abuse methods us women face. The scars are still there, Im still healing and I will be just fine so what I am showing is the person behind the glitz, glam and fancy makeup is beautiful even with all her flaws and scars. Just like each and every other woman that has been through the hellish abuse cycle.

WE STAND...WE RISE...WE UNITE...WE DANCE...

WE ARE ONE BILLION RISING!

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Sorry, this blog is more so educational than visual. This is something we need to make available to ourselves and fellow Bloggers, Photographers, Models and everyone in between, so please read the contents and share this with your friends, family, bosses and co workers because this is something that is available to benefit us all, we just need to recognize it and utilize it.

Let's Get Too It Then Shall We? Let's!

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As we know in the coming days that if you don't have a paid account with Flickr you will be grandfathered with only a 1000 photo storage limit. Why should we pay to upload our photos when we haven't had to do so in the past 10 years or so?

Many will cease to blog due to this as it does take the wind out of our sails. It actually takes the fun and love of editing amazing photos away from us. Others will simply pay to have a "pro" account to have unlimited posting and a few other amenities that really aren't worth the cost that your paying for the ability to do this.....

Some don't know where to look or for that matter feel they shouldn't have to look around for a hosting site that will give you a highly regulated upload allotment or unlimited storage. Don't know where that is or where to go or look?

What if I told you it's been under your nose forever and you didn't even realize it?

Whaaat?!?!

 I know right!

Well, it has been right under your nose and you are likely using it for favoring photos online with real life things such as recipes, favorite bands, singers, actors, actresses, home remedies, makeup and Fashion!

There are a slew of other uses but this was just to name a few and to show how generalized and popular it is....

This site is used through out the day and night on the internet and the traffic is always flowing!

The accounts are FREE with unlimited storage!

You will have to upgrade an existing or make a new account for the purposes of Secondlife and then you will have to upgrade the account to a FREE business Account to upload your "pins" which is ultimately your photos.
You can comment on them and others can follow, share and comment on your "pins".

I'm still learning the functionality of the site myself so I don't know all the functions you get with the account but you do get ton's of tools at your disposal for your "pins".

You can link your Instagram and YouTube Account to this if you do any form of Vlogging.

Facebook doesn't allow anyone to connect using your account like they use to with Instagram, Twitter and Flickr.
Why?
No idea.

With this site you can add your blog to it as your personal site. You can also look into the Overview and watch your boards, pins, tries & followers!

And you can also track ALL of your Analytics.
You also have UNLIMITED uploads!!
And the best thing of all it is all FREE, everything you can or want or need to do with your Secondlife photos can be done on this site all for FREE!!

Now, before I tell you this site I need to clarify something.
Since I do not do porn, erotic photos or anything that could be considered as R-Rated or X-Rated you might want to read the community standards before uploading them as they may not wish for that type of content being posted on the site since there are so many ages popping onto it.
So in short...Don't be an asshole and just do as you damn well please READ before you post!
I mean seriously, all it takes is one asshole to ruin something good for us people who truly enjoy the ethic of blogging and fashion related photos.
To be honest, I really hate seeing that type of photos being posted on threads where children can view it, I find it disrespectful and tasteless.
Have class and not enjoy being so crass!

Now, for us normal people who wish to share our work and art with others...
That site is simply....Pinterest

There are no tags to be used like on Flickr, but it depends on the type of category you choose when uploading it. Public Pin Groups, etc.

I hope that this will give you a warm and fuzzy feeling and the sense that you have conquered the 1000 Photo allotment that will be taking in effect January 1st, 2019 on Flickr.
My goal with this is to give you another tool to help you with your blog promotion so that you have a way to continue that creative outlook and be able to continue doing what you love to do no matter if photography, Modeling, Blogging, Cheerleading, just having fun with Friends or just love taking and editing some really amazing photos.

If the photo is magical and makes you feel good then you have a place to share it for FREE and unlimited "pins".


Happy Snapping and your life just got easier..... Your Welcome!

News.... or a.....teaser.........? Anyways it's about my Secondlife

Something new today!!

Instead of an update on happenings within my RL that effect something...Oh hey check this out my RL schedule is oh...Um...CLEAN! Nothing effecting RL and SL together in one big old hot mess!!

.....BUT....

I have a SL teaser that will be making waves very soon...

It' sink or swim baby and I'm the Great White Shark leading the expedition!

Anyways let get into it and take a bite shall we? 

Lets....

A lot of changes in Secondlife....Well for me it should be fun....

I wont divulge what I'm working on or the people involved with the projects until it comes full circle and I'm figuring it could all happen by November at the earliest and or December at the latest. Two things in which I love will be getting better for me and or (or both) coming back to me again!

And no....

1.) For the idiots hoping it has to do with my husband and I splitting up...NO CHANCE of that ever happening....Sorry....Not Sorry!

  2.) No, I'm NOT losing my sim, club, home or stores...Thats pretty damn secure so once again....Sorry....Not Sorry!

3.) No, I haven't lost all my friends....The only "friends" I've lost are the ones that were fake energy vampires...Good riddance!

4.) And for the idiots that think Tati my daughter, my friend Akiko, her husband, Lourie and Bratty and a few others are my alts, They aren't my alts...Do I have alts? Yes, a shit load mostly business alts now days....HOWEVER 99.9% of the time when I am online I'm on VioletCrush Bravin or VioletCrush Resident.

So with that said, I'd say that I am sorry for urinating on your leg and telling you it's raining but usually your the kind of people I couldn't be bothered to give phaq about.....So 0 phaqs given!

As for peaceful reconciliation of friendships.....

I have tried to be the bigger person and do the right thing by trying to make the effort of talking to the two people I'm speaking of....I'm sure they watch my blog to see if there is any Easter Eggs for them that would give them a laugh but sadly there isn't any and there wont be any. Once Again....Sorry....Not Sorry!

One didn't bother to even try to reconciliate and thats fine I wish you well with your RL and your SL. 

AND NOW FOR THE OTHER ONE....

 I did notecard her, for it to only start her harassing me again lol so childish....

What I have to say to you is....

Neo gat-eun salamdeul-eul-wihan chugbog-eun eobsda.

So, I have tried and I have failed and that is ok....

Words of wisdom from a good friend....

Sometimes we have to fall and pick ourselves up again to realize what we lost in the first place...In most cases the reason we lose the lost is because it wasn't really ours or never meant to be within our axis (our being).

-- Anonymous to the cyber world.

And to Anonymous to the cyber world....

gomabseubnida, aneun neoleul salanghae nae chingu

I'll divulge more when things are happening and the first one will be happening Nov 27th at 6:00 PM SLT which I am ecstatic about since I'm already involved in it but just immersing myself a little more in something I love and want to grow with. 

It's time that my SL and what time I do spend inwold matches my real life happiness and it's time I stop heralding power to the ones that I've let have dominate it....

"There's a knock on the door....

Who is it?

It's fate calling....

And....

It's time that I reclaim everything I once had and had it stripped from me by a bunch of malicious amkae's!"

"Snake Eyes....

I see you! 

And.......

I'm coming for everyone of you!"

Anyways as for updates....

I won't have anymore until on or about Nov 27th 2018 or a few days after,

Rest assure that when I do I will just divulge everything!

Good luck racking your brains trying to figure out what I am going to do... because it will never enter your mind...

And could shock you once it all goes down.

❤ Enjoy! ❤

바이올렛 드래곤 

(violetcrush.bravin)

Akeruka Bento Mesh Head Lulu - Previous Anniversary Group Gift

I toyed and toyed with the shape until I got a face that I liked. The bento mesh head is a rather pretty head once you get the shape in order.

NOTICE: Not all Bento mesh head shapes will work with one another!!!!

I learned this the hard way and was like ooh boy that isnt a good look lmao.

So I tinkered and tinkered and I have done several photos with the previous looks that were at least good looks but not to this setting. The fun part is some makeup creators will make the Omega head appliers even if they create a makeup for Catwa or Lelutka Mesh heads (they are the two most popular ones).

I did  the blog set in Red Hair, it was a fun day to play with hair but I will choose to stay mostly blonde. I mainly wanted to show off the new shape that is exclusive to VioletCrush Braving & VioletCrush Resident, I will also be giving it to my Real Life Mom, Kitt Wulluf.

So, here it is Akeruka Bento Mesh Head Lulu The Previous Anniversary Gift From Akeruka.